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HI, I’m Kevin Alexzander. I am the author of the book series, Recaptured Love: I, II, and III (coming soon). I am a prostate cancer survivor, never a victim, having been diagnosed with advance stage prostate cancer in 2002.

I am the founder of Intimacy Coaching University™ and Intimacy with Prostate Cancer™ coaching programs and seminars.

Kevin Alexzander is not my real name. It is a pseudonym that I use in addition to Zanti Meko-Qwanzi and Brian Alexzander. I use on a daily basis my given name, B. Kevin Lauderdale. I’ll share my story of how Kevin and Alexzander came about or was born.

In the mid-nineteen nineties I was the Regional Director of the Michigan Small Business Development Center at Wayne State University. I was scheduled to give a luncheon keynote address at a small business conference in Detroit, Michigan. After several weeks of planing and communicating with the event coordinator I arrived at the location for my presentation. When I approached the luncheon room I noticed that the signage in front of the room read, Luncheon Keynote Speaker, Kevin Alexzander with my title of Regional Director. Well I was a little surprised and at first wasn’t sure if I was in the right place. The event coordinator even after several weeks of communications had mistakenly used Kevin Alexzander instead of B. Kevin Lauderdale in all the signage at the event. What struck me about all of this is… I liked the name, Kevin Alexzander, and decided right then I was going to use that as a pen name in the future. So that’s how Kevin Alexzander was born.

My business is structured around my three pseudonyms and I use each one for the 3 major passions I have in my life. Kevin Alexzander is used in my work with, Intimacy with Prostate Cancer™. Zanti Meko-Qwanzi is used in my work with self-growth and development and men’s work and my other pseudonym, Brian Alexzander , is used in my work with entrepreneurship.

My Content

My passion and mission is to help men, women and couples navigate through the ups and downs of prostate cancer treatment and create vibrant and passion filled intimate couple relationships.

To that end, I write on some topics that others often shy away from when talking about Intimacy with Prostate Cancer™, intimacy, sex, relationships, health, attitude and approach and mindset. I’ll also write about other stuff that doesn’t fit neatly into one of these categories.

Coming soon, I will have a weekly podcast called… you guessed it… Intimacy with Prostate Cancer™. The podcast will also feature experts in the categories I mentioned above and we’ll cover similar topics as those on the blog.

My goal is to create honest, insightful and relevant content that you can put to work in your relationship and personal life. My desire for you is to have the most fulfilling intimacy relationship possible–if this is what you also desire–then this website is for you.

I typically post two times a week, sometimes more. To make sure you don’t miss my newest post, you can subscribe by adding your email address in the form on this page. It’s quick, easy, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

My Biography

I have had a very rich and fulfilling life and professional career. I was a professional race car driver at the age of 16. A test driver for Chevrolet Engineering and an Aide to a US Senator. I have worked in the television and film industry as a producer, director, cameraman, and actor, and as a freelance advertising and fashion photographer.

The majority of my career was spent as a management consultant and director of two, small business development centers.

I have also written five books, two which are on this site, with another one coming soon and three on my Zanti Meko-Qwanzi site, My most recent book is called Men of Color: Men of Honor.


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My Family

I am a divorced father of three adult sons. I live in metro Detroit with my cat, Mr. Tibbs. Mr. Tibbs is named after the Sidney Poitier character from the movie “In The Heat of the Night”, Virgil Tibbs. Mr. Tibbs also has his own pseudonym. He’s also known by me as Brother-Doctor Tibbs and Big Flopper.

My Contact Information

You can contact me via Email or follow me on Twitter or Facebook.

My Colophon

This website is built on WordPress (self-hosted). I use the Headway Theme, a premium WordPress theme. Using drag and drop technology it is specifically designed for anyone wanting to build their own personal or business site.

For website hosting, I recommend A2 Hosting. It is easy to use, reliable, inexpensive and socially responsible. It also has superb, 24-7 support. It is the only hosting service I personally recommend.


About Kevin Alexzander

Kevin Alexzander

Kevin is an Intimacy-Sex and Prostate Cancer expert. He is also an Intimacy with Prostate Cancer™ Coach and Speaker. In addition to his achievements in business, Kevin has trained and taught martial arts and self-defense for 30+ years. He is a former: Aide to a US Senator; Director of the Detroit Minority Business Development Center; Regional Director of the Michigan Small Business Development Center and Community Builder of the US Dept. of Housing and Urban Development. Kevin lives in SE Michigan with his cat Mr. Tibbs.


I love words. The word for today is:

fantasticate |fanˈtastiˌkāt|

verb [ with obj. ] rare 

make (something) seem fanciful or fantastic: I do not think I have fantasticated these accounts.

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